Stop for a minute and say a prayer for Ciara..Personally i don't think abstaining from the do is a guarantee a marriage will succeed.Tes it can bring you closer to a degree,but intimacy also makes you bond,what if they do get together after the wedding and find out they are not sexually compatible? What then?
R&B songstress Ciara Harris is struggling to abstain from sex with her NFL quarterback fiancé Russell Wilson.
Wilson, 27, wants to make sure Ciara’s love for him is real and not based on sexual feelings
or money. So he asked her to abstain from sex with him until they are married.
But in a revealing interview with Cosmopolitan magazine, 30 year old Ciara said lusting after Wilson’s hot bod is wearing her down and making her cranky.
Ciara has a history of failed relationships with men, precisely because she based her past love life on sexual feelings. So she is game to abstain from sex in order to make her man happy on their wedding day.
“It’s going pretty good – we’re hanging in there,” she tells Cosmo. But then she adds: “I’m not gonna lie. I’m human, so it is not easy, especially when I look at him and I think he is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen – that I’ve ever laid my eyes on, to be honest.”
So what does she do when she’s horny and looks at Wilson’s ripping muscles?\
“I’m like, Look the other way! Look the other way!” she laughs.
The mother-of-one says she settles for hugs and kisses from her man.
“You get to hug and you get to have a nice good kiss, but you have to be careful not to go too far so you don’t end up in the place you’re trying to avoid being in,” she said.
Ciara said she and Wilson are “growing together.”
“We get to have really healthy conversations and focus on each other as people. That is very important to me and him. It’s very valuable. We’re just enjoying ourselves and going one day at a time and praying and staying positive. Being strong here!”