Ray Rice's wife Janay slams Media&Public for destroying their lives!

Ray Rice,wife Janay and their daughter.

After the outcry over American footballer Ray Rice who punched and knocked out his wife in an elevator,comes the cry from his wife Janay Rice, asking the public and media to leave them alone as they have destroyed their lives! Janay  the

victim of the domestic violence also said she loves,supports and stands by her husband Ray Rice despite the terrible domestic violence saga incident on tape!

I don't really know how to react to Ray Rice's wife Janay's public stance behind her husband.Janay is supporting her husband and feels the media and public have together destroyed their lives.

Should Janay have been supportive and forgiving of her husband Ray Rice?Didn't they say the vows for better for worse in their wedding ceremony?

What if Ray Rice had hit her that only time,is that enough in itself for her to forgive and stand by her man?I'm not sure what to think now,i guess you cant live people's lives for them.If we are calling for the head of Ray Rice,and the wife Janay,who everyone is worrying about says she is fine and leave us alone,what does one do then?

Janay passed out from the knockout punch in the elevator by Ray Rice.

Personally from what i saw in that elevator fight of Rice knocking out his girlfriend with a punch,i concluded those two are in an abusive relationship.They hit each other frequently..i don't know who hits first,but they do hit each other.From that video,there was no sense of shock,no sense of "what have i done"..it was like business as usual.Also from the way Janay argued and hit back,she had been in that place before.So maybe this couple is used to that life style and that is how they sort each other out.Might sound sick and crazy,but there actually are couple's who roll like that.They fight like crazy,make love and make up!

Maybe that is why they are asking us to butt out of their lives and business.Trouble is,once that kind of thing becomes public,we are sorry we can't butt out.You should have kept that in your bedroom if you didn't want a public reaction! I guess losing a $40m contract is not fun..it helps heal a busted nose or broken rib quicker!

I really hope the couple survive this and go on to have a happy family.There is a little one to think about.I also don't think it is fair to say Ray Rice should not play football anymore.That's his job.His job has nothing to do with what he did to his wife.Prosecute him,sack him,fine him,send him to jail,whatever,but don't ask him not to do his job! If he was a postman ,would we be saying the same?His club now sacked him and i think that was the right decision.But as soon as he serves his time from any punishment dished out-and i am talking proper punishment,not that silly 2 match ban ..so as i was saying,as soon as he serves his punishment,he should be able to go back to work and play for any team that wants him..its his job.

This is the message Janay posted on her instagram page defending her husband  and their lives and at the same time giving the media and public a piece of her mind..

I woke up this morning, feeling like I had a horrible nightmare, feeling like I’m mourning the death of my closest friend, But to have to accept the fact that it’s reality is a nightmare itself. No one know(s) the pain that the media & unwanted options from the public has caused my family. To make us relive a moment in our lives that we regret everyday is a horrible thing.(continue)...

To take something away from the man I love that he has worked his ass off for all his life just to gain ratings is horrific. THIS IS OUR LIFE! What don’t you all get. If your intentions were to hurt us, embarrass us, make us feel alone, take all happines away, you’ve succeeded on so many levels.  Just know we will continue to grow & show the world what real love is! Ravensnation we love you!

The punch that knocked out Ray Rice's finacee/wife,Janay in the elevator as seen from the video.